Wednesday, July 8, 2009

I AM WORTH IT! YOUR JOURNEY............
















"I just can't do it! I'm not a fighter and I can't imagine poking someone's eye out if I had to!"

First and foremost, it is useless and detrimental to accept victimization. The very first step in the physical aspect of personal safety is to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. When you have a higher degree of self-esteem and self-confidence, you do not quietly accept nor welcome intimidation.

When you start to believe that your life and the lives of those you love are worth living, you WILL do whatever it takes to survive and conquer a threatening situation. You will immediately give yourself permission to fight back. You will fight even though you are a lover. You will strike someone in the eye even if it grosses you out. You will scream. You will strike. You will kick. You will bite. You will scratch. You will do whatever is necessary to get out alive. BECAUSE YOU ARE WORTH IT!

Feeding to the mentality of I can't do it, you won't be able to do it. This type of negative attitude does a number of things. Most importantly it gives your assailant the upper hand. It puts you into an automatic position of defeat and you then become ANOTHER STATISTIC.

Whatever physical force that is necessary to promote survival doesn't paint a pretty picture. But.......neither does suffering from the mental and emotional torment and physical injuries from continued abuse or rape or spending countless weeks with an IV in your arm after being beaten to an inch of our life. Or being dead. ULTIMATELY, IT'S YOUR CHOICE!



You are worth so much more.

Reach out to friends, family, support who will help/assist you. YOU DESERVE TO HEAL. YOU NEVER DESERVE TO BE ABUSED BY ANYONE IN ANY MANNER WHAT-SO-EVER.

And, you DESERVE TO LEARN AWARENESS, HOW TO BE PROACTIVE, SAFETY TIPS AND ULTIMATELY HOW YOU CAN USE YOUR MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT TO PROTECT AND DEFEND YOURSELF.




Anny Jacoby
A Success Survivor
The Realistic Female Self-Defense Company
"Raising female awareness and skills to reduce susceptibility in response to violence."
www.annyjacoby.com
www.realisiticfemaleselfdefense.com






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