Monday, June 29, 2009

"FEMALES & GUNS", A part of Myths=Excuses / Facts=Reality

Even though I have shot guns since I was in junior high school, had a concealed carry permit in my lifetime and I support the Right To Bear Arms; I do not support the myth, "I own a gun and that is the best possible method of self-defense. If someone attacks me, I can use it to protect myself."

Let's take a look at why not......the facts/reality of such myth. First, I say congratulations! I have heard this comment from females and males on behalf of the women in their lives with a cavalier attitude - all thinking/feeling that if owning a gun is the only sufficient method of personal safety/self-defense. Weapons are advantageous and necessary when situations demand their use. Our military are not equipped with bottles of pepper spray, really loud whistles and table knives. Our soldiers are armed with top-of-the line deadly weapons in order to fulfill their duties to be able to fight defensively during wartime. Good common sense.

Supporting the right to bear arms comes in when you wake up in the middle of the night, you hear a strange noise, having a gun safely in your night stand is a good thing. You will probably have enough time to make a 911 call; get your weapon, gather up enough courage to head toward the direction of the noise and attempt to intimidate and stall him until the police arrive. A gun is a handy when it is used with KNOWLEDGE, GOOD JUDGMENT AND RESPECT. Most important.......it's best
IF you have time to use it.

Realistically, when you are attacked by an assailant, it happens without warning. You are not given the smallest margin of time to prepare your defense. I don't care what your weapon of choice is you will not be given the time necessary to pull it out and use it. If you are unexpectedly pushed or ambushed to the ground, even if you have your weapon in your pocketbook, it's not going to help the situation. When faced with predicaments the call for immediate personal safety training/self-defense, only two thing are readily available - your MIND AND BODY. That's all you have.

Guns are useful in certain situations or as a means of intimidation; the odds of being able to access a weapon in enough time so that it retains its benefits are pretty damn slim. A gun in your safety box or save at your home won't help you when someone attacks you while you are jogging in the park.

Learn how to use yourself as a weapon and you might not have to worry about owning a gun. This same principle applies to any weapons - including pepper spray, Mace or knives.

Food for thought.......why do you think our military and law enforcement are taught "hand-to-hand combat" extensively in training? Simple answer.......they may not have enough time to draw their weapons to defend themselves in an altercation. They must know how to protect and defend themselves "realistically" with their minds and bodies rather than depending on their weapon.

So, why wouldn't you do everything in your power to learn how to use your mind and body "realistically" to defend yourself?



Take care and STAY SAFE!
Anny
A Survivor
The Realistic Female Self-Defense Company
"Raising female awareness and skills to reduce susceptibility in response to violence."
www.annyjacoby.com
www.realisticfemaleselfdefense.com

2 comments:

  1. Good post, Anny. I too am a surviver (of domestic violence, incest, and date rape). I want to add to your excellent thoughts that many crimes of violence are perpetrated by family, friends, and acquaintances. They are people who you've trusted and loved. They are not people you instinctively want to hurt, let alone shoot with a gun. The shock of being attacked someone you know would make it highly unlikely that you would be willing to use a gun with them. And then there's the complication that women who have shot their abusive spouse have ended up in jail before.

    I think the subject of your blog is important and look forward to reading future posts.

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  2. Thank you so much Tanya for your post/comment. I always welcome others feelings and viewpoints. Please continue to share and you are welcome back any time! Looking forward to hearing from you. In the meantime, take care and STAY SAFE!

    Anny

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